Why an Intimate Micro Wedding Might be the Right Choice

Not everyone dreams of the large wedding, surrounded by everyone they know as they exchange vows and dance the night away. Some people prefer to keep things small, and others even smaller, and smaller still. The COVID-19 pandemic might have made micro weddings a necessity, but their popularity has stuck around because couples have preferred to invest in quality, intimate moments over expensive, large events that feel like a drain on the wallet and on their energy.

 

What is a Micro Wedding?

So what is a micro wedding, and what makes it different from something like an elopement? Elopements are traditionally just the couple, the officiant, and maybe a witness or two, and then maybe a meal afterwards to celebrate. Micro weddings, on the other hand, typically follow the traditional wedding elements (ceremony, cocktail hour, reception with dinner, cake cutting, etc.), but the guest list is 10 to 50 guests max. 

 

Couples have been choosing this option more as it allows them to focus on more intimate moments with each other and with their family and friends. Micro weddings have allowed them to curate not just the guest list, but the decor, the music, and even the magical feeling of the day, ensuring that they’re surrounded by those closest to them and who love them.

 

Pros and Cons of Micro Weddings

There are many positives to having a micro wedding; because of their size, they tend to be more budget-friendly. This allows you to spend a little more on quality food and drink, instead of spending thousands on a higher quantity of food. 

 

You can also add more personal touches throughout the day, from handwritten placecards to personalized thank-you notes. This means unique touches that mean more to your love story, a personalized drinks menu, or handmade favors that don’t feel generic or mass-produced. 

 

Many of the positives for having a micro wedding do depend on your vision and, most importantly, your guest list. If you can not imagine a party smaller than 75 people, micro weddings are not going to work for you. Though there are hybrid options that would allow a small ceremony, and then a much larger reception afterwards.

 

What’s Important?

So what are the most important things to keep in mind for your micro wedding? Well, we have five things on our short list for you: the venue, the food, personalized designs, your vendors, and the experience.

 

The Venue

The perfect venue for you should feel like a natural extension to you; it should feel magical and special. Maybe a favorite place or restaurant, or a beautiful winery that has a gorgeous lake that can make you feel like you're in your own fairytale. 

 

Good Food

This feels obvious, but good food at a wedding is important. With a smaller guest list, you can spend a little bit more on food and drink to bring a more thoughtful experience to your guests that they’ll remember forever.

 

Personalized Design and Decor

There are many opportunities to add personal touches throughout your micro wedding that we’ve already discussed, and there are so many more great ideas out there. The best part is that these personal touches will make your celebration unique to you and your celebration.

 

Your Vendors

Your vendors are always an important part of the day; from the photographer to the DJ, they all help make the day run smoothly. You can opt for favorite treats versus a giant cake from a favorite bakery, or if you’re looking for extra support, you could hire a wedding planner to help you out. Spring Lake will assist you every step of the way to ensure your micro wedding goes perfectly!

 

Your Guests’ Experience

Remember, micro weddings are about intimate moments, so that means you should only include your closest family and friends, the people you cannot imagine your day without. 

 

Together, all of these will make your day memorable and magical. 

Why Spring Lake Winery is Perfect

So why choose Spring Lake Winery? Well, we offer plenty of options, including three different ceremony sites and all-inclusive packages. We take pride in providing:

 

• Award-Winning Spring Lake Wines & Signature Estate Cuisine

• Full-Service Bar Featuring Spring Lake Wines

• White Linens, Glassware & Table Settings Included

• On-Site Rehearsal & Dedicated Coordination

• Capacity of 250 guests - larger parties can be accommodated.​

• Guest Lodging Available on Property

 

If you’re looking to create a day full of memories, look no further than Spring Lake Winery. Contact us today to schedule a tour and see why we’re listed as one of the “Best places to get married in Upstate NY” (newyorkupstate.com)!